I seem to have a problem with my libido. I've only had sex once, and it was nearly a disaster. For some strange reason, I couldn't stay hard longer than like 5-10 minutes at a time. I say strange because I have been masturbating since I was 14 (I'm 18 now) and I never once had a problem doing it.
Okay, so now this really BEAUTIFUL, perfect girl comes along, and I'm lucky enough to have sex with her, right? Suddenly it's like a nightmare. I was doing just fine and all the sudden... poof, I'm soft again. I don't understand it, I couldn't have been more turned on, and yet I just wasn't staying erect. I was able to get it back up of course, but I'm really angry at the fact that this happened. I totally expected to last all of 5 minutes my first time, and be hard as a rock.
Instead, I was only erect on and off during the whole course of the thing, and I didn't even have an orgasm because of this. It was still good, of course, but I'm just ****** off, and quite embarassed. I was never fully erect the whole time, the farthest I got was flying at half mast. I don't know if I was subconciously nervous, or stressed, or just too tired (It was at like 2 A.M.) or what...
It's been a week since I had sex, and I haven't gotten a boner at all, except for morning wood. This is bothering me pretty badly, I used to be really horny all the time. I haven't even wanted to masturbate either, I only did it once, and I used to do it about once a day.
Anyone have any advice? I just can't seem to get turned on all of the sudden, or something...
Last edited by jorge_; 12-03-2003 at 01:47 AM.