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Old 12-13-2003, 02:12 PM   #1
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Penis too big!

Hi. I have a two questions:

1) My girlfriend says she can't orgasm. She says she never has been able to, even with a vibrator. I have tried and failed. She sometimes sounds like she's going to, but never has yet. She says lots of girls never achieve orgasm. Is this true or is it still possible for me to make her orgasm?

2) My penis is too big for her. I'm about 7 and a half inches long if I measure it from the top, longer if I measure it from the bottom and I think 6 nearly 7 inches girth. She's really tight and doesn't get that wet compared with other girls I've been with. I can only get two, and sometimes nearly three fingers in there. If we use lots of lube I get get in for a bit, but it often gets tight and I have stop and put more on. We have been using condoms (large ones) and they have been breaking, luckily all before I have ejaculated, but it's still scary and I guess there is still a small chance of her getting pregnant. Any advice on how to solve this problem?

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Old 12-15-2003, 04:51 AM   #2
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Re: Penis too big!

I think your gfriend has resigned herself to the fact she can't orgasm so you're dealing with a mind over matter issue here. Now, many woman just do not get aroused by being fingered. to be honest it doesn't do much as far as stimulation is concerned.

certain positions can increase pleasure, unfortunatley cos ur penis is large some of the positions will be too painful for her.

i would advise you spend some time on her body. kiss her all over, gentle kisses. the neck, ankles and inner thighs are natural erogenous zones on a woman. spend time on her ****, be gentle don't try to mimic a vibrator!! the longer you take and the more gentle you are the more comfortable she'll feel. sex can sometimes be too rushed for one person to become truly relaxed so they don't get the chance to let go and achieve orgasm. if she is still not as wet as you'd like use a little bit of lube. massage it into her, that way she won't feel as if she can't give you want you want, cos you'll be incorporating it into her pleasure.

i'm afraid you're going to have to be patient. and possibly masturbate beforehand so you don't get too aroused and want to enter her before you have achieved turning her on.

look on the internet for the Karma Sutra, you'll get a lot of porn but if you can find an info site on the actual art of the karma sutra, you'll find recommendations for the right positions/actions for your penis size and how to get your gfriend totally aroused.

good luck xxxx

 
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Old 12-16-2003, 11:41 AM   #3
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Re: Penis too big!

Thanks a lot for your good advice Raspberry. I have actuallybeen taking my time over her so far, and will continue to do so. I did a search and found some sites with advice, so will try a few new things to see if that helps. I think the best advice I got from one site was to talk to her and find out what she likes, which is something we haven't done a lot of, so I'l try that next time I see her. Thanks a lot again!

 
Old 12-16-2003, 12:52 PM   #4
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Re: Penis too big!

Have you tried oral sex with her?
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Old 12-16-2003, 12:55 PM   #5
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Re: Penis too big!

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Have you tried oral sex with her?
Yes, maybe I wasn't clear, but I always take a lot of time with oral sex.

 
Old 12-17-2003, 12:11 PM   #6
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Re: Penis too big!

fyi to raspberry: it's KAMA sutra, not KARMA sutra!

 
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