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Old 12-14-2003, 07:20 PM   #1
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Dirty Talk (If you don't like it, then don't post)

Hmm i guess this is the best place to post this...

I enjoy when my boyfriend talks dirty to me while we're having sex and would love to return the favor. Where do i start? What do i say? I know everyone differs, but are there any certain things that you have said/have had said to you that were particulary, eh, 'successful'?

This question may sound childish but given the fact that i don't know any of you i decided to swallow my pride and just ask.

Thank you!

 
Old 12-14-2003, 09:59 PM   #2
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Re: Dirty Talk (If you don't like it, then don't post)

Basically, you tell him how much you want him, how badly you need him in you right now, how he makes you feel, how badly you want him to have an orgasm/give you one, etc etc but try phrasing it using certain 4 letter words and slang terms for the body parts involved. Unless you grew up in a Convent I'm sure you know all the words....There is no right or wrong thing to say. There's not a certain word or words that will be "successful". Just say what you are feeling. Personally I would like it when a girl tells me those such things especially the first time; it would give my self esteem a little boost to know I'm doing it just right for her

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Old 12-16-2003, 09:51 AM   #3
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Re: Dirty Talk (If you don't like it, then don't post)

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Originally Posted by 1965_Bruce
Basically, you tell him how much you want him, how badly you need him in you right now, how he makes you feel, how badly you want him to have an orgasm/give you one, etc etc but try phrasing it using certain 4 letter words and slang terms for the body parts involved. Unless you grew up in a Convent I'm sure you know all the words....There is no right or wrong thing to say. There's not a certain word or words that will be "successful". Just say what you are feeling. Personally I would like it when a girl tells me those such things especially the first time; it would give my self esteem a little boost to know I'm doing it just right for her
Best thread of the day AWARD

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Old 12-16-2003, 02:38 PM   #4
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Re: Dirty Talk (If you don't like it, then don't post)

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Best thread of the day AWARD


You are very funny!! No joke!! I could not stop laughing @ what you posted.
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Old 12-16-2003, 04:43 PM   #5
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Re: Dirty Talk (If you don't like it, then don't post)

thank y'all very much....

for sure, if I said what was really on my mind I'd have been banned for life!

the point is, just say what you feel! when alone and naked in bed with your significant other there's really no need to feel inhibited in what you say (or do!)

 
Old 12-17-2003, 02:58 AM   #6
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Re: Dirty Talk (If you don't like it, then don't post)

Bruce is right. The other thing is that it should come naturally, not as though you are remembering lines which you tried to memorise a few hours ago.

You can practice while on your own. Relax and let your imagination get carried away. Think of words/phrases/sounds you would make during certain things you and your partner do sexually. Think of something you have always wanted to say to him. Use slang terms for body parts rather than the usual clinical terms. Keep telling him how much certain things he does to you turn you on, but use a lot of various words to describe how it's turning you on. Tell him what you want him to do to you, what you want to do to him. Get him involved with dirty talk of his own. If you get stuck, you could try reading some erotic stories which should give you enough clues on which direction you are going.

The main thing to remember is no matter what you say, he will like it. He'll like the fact that this gives your sex life a new angle, like the fact it's coming from somebody he loves, like the fact you are being so giving and open b/c a lot of people still deam "dirty" talk to be something degrading to women. If you really want to do it, then it's not degrading and he wont lose respect for you. It's only degrading if he is forcing you to do this against your own will.

 
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