do you find that some people like long labia??? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

samalexandra · 01-13-2004, 03:14 AM

I too have hanging labia. I must say though, that a lot of men tell me they are really turned on by them. At times I feel insecure though. Have other girls had mixed experiences or just negative ones???

butterflymsh · 01-13-2004, 06:32 AM

When I was a child, I had what was medically known as labial adhesion. It appears to be caused by lack of the female hormone progesterone at birth. I suffered needlessly from 6mo to around 12yrs old with my doctor forcefully prying them apart without anything to numb me down there. I am now 24yrs old and still suffer with issues of insecurity b/c of this, although I am currently happily married and my husband finds no fault with my anatomy. He is however supportive of me should I decide to have them surgically repaired.

tomas1979 · 01-16-2004, 01:18 PM

im a guy and yes i find that attractive. depending on how long tho. but yes i am very turned on by that (2-3 inches a lil more)

GettingWellAgain · 01-17-2004, 01:42 AM

I have kind of long labia. My labia doesn't hang, but I feel that it's longer than most. I'm actually not insecure about this in the slightest, because all of my boyfriends were actually very attracted to my vagina describe the lengthy labia. My current boyfriend is VERY turned on by this, and says he enjoys oral sex with me more due to this.

Thisby · 01-17-2004, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by samalexandra

Have other girls had mixed experiences or just negative ones???

I find it interesting that you only give 2 options - mixed and negative. Where's the "just positive ones"? Or how about "no comments at all, ever"?

Your question implies that there is something wrong with them and actually deserve to have negative comments made about them. Could you imagine if women were to offer up negative comments to their men about their penises the way you're implying men do to women? I'd hope both sexes would have the decency to keep any displeasure with their partner's genitals to themselves... Man, if a guy I let get that close to me were to comment negatively on the condition of my genitalia, out he goes. Talk about a jerk.