Then say, that same night, the woman sleeps for 12 hours straight (which is abnormal for her)..
Then say, a couple days later, she eats a ton of food.. like samples a bit of everything in the cupboards..
Should those things be taken as a sign? I'm thinking it's just coincidence. Tho I can't shake the thought that some sperm could've found its way to an egg somehow. Why else would she sleep so long the night we happen to have the encounter, then pig out a couple days later?
Then say, that same night, the woman sleeps for 12 hours straight (which is abnormal for her)..
Then say, a couple days later, she eats a ton of food.. like samples a bit of everything in the cupboards..
Should those things be taken as a sign? I'm thinking it's just coincidence. Tho I can't shake the thought that some sperm could've found its way to an egg somehow. Why else would she sleep so long the night we happen to have the encounter, then pig out a couple days later?
Hmmmmm. I'm paranoid maybe?
I'd say your paranoid!!!!! It takes.......correct me if I'm wrong people........2 days for the egg and the sperm to meet so the egg wouldn't even get fertalized for 2 days after your sexual encounter and then the egg still has to implant. I believe it works like that. I've never heard of anyone's pregnancy symptom being that the day they had sex, they slept for 12 hours. BUT if you did have unprotected sex.......or even protected sex, you could be pregnant. You can get pregnant even using a condom.
I have to agree with babygrant. Those aren't signs of pregnancy, since it was way to early. But that doesn't mean she's not pregnant either. (I'm saying that because you didn't say anything about whether either of you used protection.)
As for why she would have slept like that, maybe because she'd had a sexual encounter, and was tired, and relaxed and satisfied...
Sore breasts can mean a LOT of things. i get sore breasts if I sleep on my stomach. If your really worried this girl is pregnant, all she can do is wait until her period is due and take a HPT.
we didn't actually have sex..
it was more like, she was giving me a blowjob, and then i orgasmed, and apparently that turned her on and she mounted me in her underwear, and i was afraid some might've got uncomfortably close.. and then i touched my penis when i was putting it back in my pants, then fingered her a few minutes later.
i don't really think she's pregnant.. the chances are entirely too slim.. but i'm venting i guess.
it just all seems weird.. we have an encounter.. the same night she sleeps for 12 hours.. a couple days later she's raiding the fridge and eating a bit of everything.. then the next day she's complaining of her breasts being sore..
i'm just paranoid 'cause we're just getting ready for college, and there's always that looming "What if.." thought. heh.
i'd appreciate it if you'd delete your reply, as i find it kinda offensive, as it implies i'm lying and sleeping with underaged women. which again, is seriously not cool.
also, it's really off-topic.
Last edited by super fluke; 02-28-2004 at 08:31 AM.
i'd appreciate it if you'd delete your reply, as i find it kinda offensive, as it implies i'm lying and sleeping with underaged women. which again, is seriously not cool.
also, it's really off-topic.
I know you take offense in what Hoop has said and also that it is not not cool, but the truth was only being stated if.... you dont want to be judged and asked questions then the best thing for you to do is tell the complete truth... We are here to help you!! But the only way we can do that is if you are completely honest about everything!
Also I doubt she is pregnant by you.... but she could still be pregnant depends on if she has had more than just you as a partner!
That is something I would checkout because who knows what she has.... also if it is the underage girl then that would answer why she wants a serious relationship and if its not then I would serious consider waiting until she is old enought to really make those kind of emotional choices herself! Your 19 find someone your age to play with.... you are graduated she is barely starting high school you are old enough to enlist in war.... you can got to clubs she can only think of them.... you can purchase cigarettes..... she is busy reading her health book about how "bad" they are for you.... and lastly you are old enough to have sexual encounters with ANYONE you desire and to accept the consequences as an adult.... she is barely old enough to even understand what the consequences might be!
If you are really that set on dating a freshman then go to college and date one there.
Also I would consider questioning your status with the girl mentioned in your thread here.... what kind of relationship do you have? Is she your girlfriend? Is she the 15 yr old? Is she just a girl you met at a party??
You need to consider what kind of affect this will have on both these girls (if they are not the same person)
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Last edited by emtdollluvsjohn; 02-28-2004 at 08:59 AM.
the girl i'm talking about is a *sex-buddy* who i met in anthropology class. turns out she lived a few apartments away, and we got close enough for *sex-buddy* status.
i've only been with 3 women including this woman in my lifetime. i don't do the party hookup or one-night-stand thing. i wasn't really comfortable with the *sex-buddy* thing either until a few months after my last breakup with a woman i still luv to this day.
it might sound shallow but i actually sometimes *need* that sex.
Last edited by super fluke; 02-28-2004 at 12:35 PM.
Hum, I think some people might owe super fluke - and the rest of us - an apology for wasting our time with thoughtless accusations and irrelevant details. Maybe if someone had just asked "is this the same young girl you mentioned in your thread on the Relationship Issues board?" instead of jumping to conclusions, this all could have been avoided...
But back to the original topic. The puking... now that is more of an indication of possible pregnancy than the other stuff. But as someone else pointed out, maybe she was already pregnant. All the symptoms you've given indicate being farther along in the pregnancy than you describe. How long has it been since your encounter? (And let me stress, what you describe as your encounter doesn't sound likely to result in pregnancy.) Is it possible she could be pregnant from an earlier relationship w/someone else?
it's definitely possible that she's seeing someone and she'd been sexually active with them.
would i be outta place to ask her?
and our encounter was only maybe two weeks ago, maybe three. and i believe the signs i'm seeing are more indicative of around 6 to 8 weeks from conception, right?
OK young buck. Let's keep it on topic but let me just say that I never
once implied that you had sex with the other girl. You know who I'm
talking about. I don't know where anyone got that idea from my two
sentence post that I have since deleted per your request. But, by the
end of this post you should understand why I asked about it. You, are
leaving confusion in your wake.
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Originally Posted by super fluke
Say, a guy has a sexual encounter with a woman....
...Tho I can't shake the thought that some sperm could've
found its way to an egg somehow...
...Hmmmmm. I'm paranoid maybe?
You start off your original post in the third person but end
up in the first person by the end of your post. You should have
just come out and said it was you from the beginning.
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Originally Posted by super fluke
we didn't actually have sex..
i'm just paranoid 'cause we're just getting ready for college,
But, I thought this guy had a sexual encounter with a woman? Now this
guy didn't actually have sex according to you. Oh by the way, this guy I'm referring to, is you, in case anyone hasn't figured it out yet. But OK, you didn't actually have sex, your words, not mine.
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Originally Posted by super fluke
...the girl i'm talking about is a *sex-buddy* who i met in anthropology class. turns out she lived a few apartments
away, and we got close enough for *sex-buddy* status.
OK, so nothing wrong here. NOT! But I thought you "didn't actually have sex,"
but somehow she is your sex-buddy now. But I thought you were getting ready for college as well. How is it that you met in anthropology class. You are 19 years old. Don't tell me you are still in high school. Don't tell me she is in high school also and has her own apartment. UUmmm...Maybe she lives with her parents in this apartment, but don't let me put any bad ideas in your head. I don't want to corrupt your clear train of thought.
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Originally Posted by super fluke
i wasn't really comfortable with the *sex-buddy* thing either until a few months after my last breakup with a woman i still luv
to this day.
So now the truth comes out or it sounds like it anyway. There is/was another woman who because you still luv her after your break up, you now feel comfortable with this sex-buddy status thing. Nothing wrong with that but I don't know why you need to justify it here. In any case, now you really need to leave the other lady alone. You know who I'm talking about.
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Originally Posted by super fluke
it might sound shallow but i actually sometimes *need* that sex.
If you would have said " I actually sometimes 'need' that sex."
you would have been alright. Nothing shallow about that. Trust me,
sometime we all just need that sex.
I just don't get it Super Fluke but I am beginning to really like your handle. Maybe Thisby would be kind enough to explain it to me since she seems to follow your thoughts better than I. Maybe I'm just too shallow myself for nut(sp) understanding.
Apologies to my dog Spot in advance.
Hoop (the trying extremely hard to stay on topic man)
now she says it's almost done.. and that it usually lasts a day or two longer. she also said it was normal tho, as far as amount and flow go.
she thinks it's normal and just stress or something else and told me not to worry.
eh.
Last edited by super fluke; 03-01-2004 at 12:29 PM.
I just don't get it Super Fluke but I am beginning to really like your handle. Maybe Thisby would be kind enough to explain it to me since she seems to follow your thoughts better than I. Maybe I'm just too shallow myself for nut(sp) understanding.
Apologies to my dog Spot in advance.
Hoop (the trying extremely hard to stay on topic man)
Hoop,
Once again you had me rolling on the floor in laughter..... I think what this kid is most likely trying to say is that he has a sex buddy that he is okay with because sometimes he needs that kind of sex, but wasnt really comfortable with it at first but now he is maybe because they are both in school part time getting ready to go full time and he is mostly uncomfortable because she might be pregnant but obviously isnt and even if she was it wouldnt be his because they dont have vaginal penetration because he is still is in love with his ex girlfriend and there is no chance for them to get back togther (sigh) so now he thinks he is in love with the other girl (we ALL know who I am talking about.) But non of this is revelant because all he wanted to know is if they were signs which obviously they arent and if they were it most likely wouldnt be his because she has penetration with other guys not him and had one just before him.
How am I doing super fluke?
Seems to me like you have more serious problems then worrying about whether or not she is pregnant from the way you tell it it makes me think you need to be more worried about what she passed to you and not what you gave to her!
Stop worrying she knows her body better than you do or ever will so if she says she is fine then she is fine.....
well, everything seemed on point, except i don't think i'm in luv with any other women.. i'll find out if i have anything when i get my annual physical next month i suppose, altho she seems like a really nice girl. i think she selects her partners carefully.
it's just all too worrisome, 'cause on this very website i've heard of women getting pregnant without penetration, or simply from "precum"..
then she sleeps forever.. she eats everything in her cupboards.. she gets sick.. she gets her period early and it's supposedly going to end early..
i think when a pregnancy is involved, it's justifiable to worry your butt off, whatever the situation.
Last edited by super fluke; 03-01-2004 at 06:08 PM.
