Re: Foot fetish-unhealthy?
Who can resist a beautiful pair of women's feet? Why do you think they wear strappies, stilletos and flip flops? They know it. You dig feet, another dude digs breasts, one likes enemas, one likes missionary.
Its all fun. Now, if the guy only likes feet, and nothing else, thats isolating and maybe you wanna think about it. There is more to women than feet. Much more. So fetishism, if it eclipses regular mixed desires, can become an addictive weight.
I love women's feet. I love watching 2 men together. I love watching 2 women together. I love beautiful faces. I am a makeup artist and get to make women look pretty all day.
But at the end of the day.....what I like most.....is lying in the arms of someone I love caressing their skin. When that goes, I think fetishism can become a long, lonely road. Or maybe not. Watch the foreign film, it is French, called Babette's Feet. About a fetishist. He is obsessed with Babette, as the title suggests. She has nice feet. She is obsessed with hands herself. She is an artist that draws mens hands all day and tries to sell her work.
At the end of the movie they find each other. She sees his hands and says "perfect". He caresses her feet and just sighs. Some women I have been with, especially dancers, love to have their feet kissed and loved. As long as you remember there is a body, a brain and a spirit in that body, all fetishes, to me, are a way of celebrating the beauty of the human body.
So put your best foot forward and rock on.