I can't keep 'it' up without unprotected oral sex - Sexual Health - General Message Board

zoron · 05-06-2004, 04:30 PM

I don't know why, but whenever I use a condom, there is no erection.

I find that I no longer can get erect as strong and as long as when I was in high school.

The only way for me to keep it up that hard and long, is only when the girl performs unprotected oral sex on me for some time before I am ready to insert.

Some of the girls I have known lately have complicated sexual pasts. I already put myself at risk 3 months ago. (unprotected oral and vaginal). Thank God the STD tests came back negative.

But, it is still an ongoing concern of mines is that whenever I use the rubber with a girl I hardly know too well, I get anxiety and there is no erection. The only way for that erection to be maintained is through unprotected oral and vaginal. That is the weakness I have right now.

Someone also told me that I should not masturbate for an entire week prior to having sex with a girl. He said that it often works for him and he can get more easily erect that way.

prince_112 · 05-07-2004, 02:39 AM

First, zoron no matter what you are doing sexually always protect yourself unless it is your wife. Second, have you ever thought about trying all natural supplements try some african extract called yohimbe bark its good for energy in the gym and is also good for the extra activities (sex) if you know what i mean from one man to another

try to focus on what it is that doesnt allow you to not perform outside oral and work on it but always protect your self no matter what

davenyc · 05-09-2004, 10:01 PM

... i hear ya man i used to have the exact same problem as you get older and i mean once you pass the age of 18 your testosterone levels drop ..also the more experience you get the less sensation you have in your penis..its a catch 22 when your 16yrs old you hate being the 2 minute man when your older like myself its unbearable to wear a condom at times because you tire out before finishing or you loose your hard on!..Your actually pretty safe letting a girl blow you unprotected ..you do kiss her right?? if anything a woman has to watch out blowing a guy because the guy could have a laceration or when he starts to pre ejaculate -full ejaculation is when a woman can get infected...you can still get herpes but you would get that from kissing her as well ...so your fine let her blow you slap your condom on and go to work..also working out can do wonders for testosterone levels ..if all else fails ask your doc for viagra