Ejaculation Problem - Sexual Health - General Message Board

6634 · 11-03-2004, 07:53 PM

Hi,

I have already posted about a problem that may relate to this [url]http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=221781[/url]

Please note: This is when i manage to stay erect.

Me and my girl friend have been with one and other for 2yrs she has 'never' managed to make me ejaculate through mouth oral or hand job, she says that she always managed to make other lads ejaculate after about a minute, when masturbating my self i always do it very hard and fast, it takes me anything from 90 seconds to 25 minutes, when she masturbates me she can only do it the way i do it for about 20 seconds before her arm and hand aches, is there something wrong with me?

Any advice would be extremely appreciated.

Thank You

adzza · 11-03-2004, 08:32 PM

I feel your pain mate. I think it has to do with a couple of things. I remember when I was intimate with my ex, all I could think of was getting it off, and that takes a lot away from just enjoying whats actually going on. Just let yourself go, and let it happen when it does. If you focus on it to much, it just wont happen cause you are not relaxed. As for the time issue, i think this really varies. If she just comes over and starts on you, you have had no time to horn up. If you are mucking around and you both get really hyped up, then it will happen much quicker. Let me put it this way. If you were watching a really good "movie" and having a go, and then she came over and helped you out, i would think you would not last long. Thats because you are pumped up. If you are not, it takes the body longer to get there. Hope that made sense. Good luck mate.