Don't want to have a foot fetish please help - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Microban123 · 12-06-2004, 08:36 PM

I have a extreme foot fetish. Its gotten to the point now that i only get really hard when looking at foot fetish porn or getting a footjob. I don't want to have this fetish. It has had an effect on my sex life. Try asking a girl for a footjob they will look at you like your a freak. My girl friend now doesn't have a problem with it (so she says) but i think she thinks it wierd. people think its gross and i dont want to have it. I have tried not looking at that porno but then i can't not look at a girls feet when they walk by. I don't know where it originated from in my life.Some one please help i do not want this fetish. I think that it is way to wierd but yet i get turned on by it. some one help please help.

SallyQ · 12-06-2004, 09:09 PM

Hey Microban,

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time with this. To tell you the truth, I don't know that much about fetishes but I wouldn't stress out over it. I do know that a fetish is defined as a fixation on something (such as feet) that must be present in order for the person to function sexually. Do you have to be looking at feet to have sex? Or could this just be a phase you're going through? I would suggest speaking with your doctor about it. You may feel uncomfortable doing it, but those docs have heard and seen it all. No need to worry. Best of luck and don't stress!

tommy124 · 12-07-2004, 09:14 AM

find somebody who shares your orientation, and enjoy. it may take some work, but it is easier than changing your basic orientation, I'd bet.

Microban123 · 12-07-2004, 01:27 PM

Iwould rather not have the fetish at all its too wierd. I have had this fetish for at least 5 years. I never wanted it and still dont want it. Does anyone know if Hypnosis (don't know how to spell it). I would pay to be hypnotised if i could get rid of this fetish.

SallyQ · 12-07-2004, 07:14 PM

Don't waste your money on hypnosis which may or may not work for who knows how long. If it's really causing you mental angst (and it's apparent that it is) go talk to your doctor. I never understand why people are hesitant to do the apparent.