y do u want to get it over so fast? if u dont mind me askin, how long r u 2 at it? well, i think u're thinking about orgasming too much, and maybe also during sex??? its a mental game, if u're mentally aroused 1st, it can help a lot (and not worrying about anything and just enjoying urself). if thats not the case, maybe u can try a faster speed w ur girl. or is she too wet? cuz if she is, theres no friction and u might have to try a certain position that will make her tighter for u. thats all i could think of on the spot, cuz i dont know ur situation too well. oh and u can try what the previous poster said, dont touch urself until the next time u see ur girl again.