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Old 03-12-2005, 08:38 PM   #1
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Question Can you make Anal NOT hurt so much???????

Ok....me and my bf decided tonight that we would try having anal sex. I had been extremely curious about it, and thought why not.
We had lube and he used his fingers to loosen me up a bit, which didn't hurt at all, actually felt nice, but once he stuck his penis in, I just thought I was going to DIE...it was so unbearable!!!!! I was like OWWWW...get it out!!!
I really want to do it, and have him fully inside of me, but if it hurts this much I don't think I can handle it.
Does anyone know how you can make it so it doesn't hurt as bad???....Oh by the way my bf is somewhat on the larger side, so I think that plays a role in the reason its hurting.
Also does it just hurt the first time he enters??...or will it hurt the entire time???
Any advice would be appreciated

 
Old 03-13-2005, 06:28 AM   #2
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Re: Can you make Anal NOT hurt so much???????

In addition to the advice already given......

Relaxation is the key.

It might be best to have an orgasm prior to beginning the sphincter stretching.

I only speak from experience, here.

I was taught by a very nice lady how to get her there........
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Old 03-14-2005, 12:03 PM   #3
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Re: Can you make Anal NOT hurt so much???????

i gave up trying! LOL hurts like hell every time!

 
Old 03-14-2005, 01:05 PM   #4
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Re: Can you make Anal NOT hurt so much???????

They make this stuff called Anal Ease and Prolong cream which will not onlly Lubricate but will also numb out the anal area some. Also try different positions. The first few times I tried It hurt like hell. Would NOT do it. But my H was always behind me. When I was on top though it didn't hurt. Also it gives me more control so if it did start to hurt I could stop it or move a little. Hope this helps!
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