Originally Posted by shellbee
I do not want to take the pill because it makes you fat and i was wondering if the man could take the contraception. I am very inexperienced
There is no male hormonal contraception.
Furthermore, not all women gain weight with the pill. In fact, there are many doctors that will assure you that hormonal birth control can not and will not cause weight gain. They say that any weight gain is because of change in diet and exercise, not because of the pill.
If you are sexually active, you really should consider hormonal birth control. There are more options other than the pill, too. Do your research.