no foreplay - Sexual Health - General Message Board

lalu2005 · 12-20-2005, 10:19 AM

ok this is the problem -im seein this young bloke and i just wanna know what yre take is on this. We have like hot exciting tel conversations on phone then he comes to see me but there's like zero foreplay and no kissing just sex. i mean ive asked him why and hes like i just cant wait.
Do u think this is the case or theres something else goin on here? I mean like were not really goin out as such its more like an arrangment cause im a little older than him like im 30.
so im thinkin is it cause he doesnt like me that much. i mean no foreplay it just doesnt do it for me just gettin straight down to it!
I've known him for 3 years but weve only just got together.
what do u think!

nancy30 · 12-20-2005, 11:43 AM

I think that he is being selfish. You should insist on him doing stuff for you before he gets his....otherwise, sounds like you will be left out in the cold everytime. If he refuses, then you are better off without him. After all, how are you being benefitted right now with you satisfying his selfish needs and him doing nothing for you?????

mrbojangle · 12-20-2005, 02:56 PM

Good Grief!! The guy's using you for his sexual pleasure with nothing in return for you... Tell him get lost, get his wallet out, and visit a prostitute

neflin · 12-20-2005, 03:02 PM

Good lord, you are just being used for pleasure. I think you know this. What is it wham, bam, thank you ma'm.. Something like that. I would show him the front door quickly.

hopenj77 · 12-20-2005, 04:57 PM

i myself when i am very horny love foreplay, i love to go down on my wife amongst other things and it just makes me hotter, i can see if he wanted a quicky every once in a while, but me personably make sure my wife or girlfriend back in the day were satisfied, if they werent i would feel like they got beat, i exspect the same treatment though i mean if she got off and then said im done and rolled over or got dressed then she would get the same treatment. i have a quick question do you think that most guys like to do oral on there partners i love it cant get enough.

he doesnt finish you off when hes done? that would be crappy if he didnt, and if he doesnt dont give him any, remember you have the power he says he cant wait well make him wait, tease him be more aggressive tell him what hes going to do before he gets any.. good luck and may your days and nights be filled with pleasure