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Originally Posted by circlequay She seems to favor being on top--but instead of performing the usual motion, she gyrates backwards and forwards...sometimes so hard that I'm afraid she'll injure my penis. I don't know how anyone could come to the idea that that's the way to do it, much less a medical student. |
Um, because that's the way she gets pleasure from it? Believe it or not, the main reason the woman-on-top position is supposed to be so good for the woman is because this way she can rub her clitoris against you which is something she can only control in that position. You do know that that's what a woman needs, right? Implying she doesn't know what she is doing is actually just showing your inexperience. Anyway, if you didn't like it, and it was hurting you, you should have spoken up right away. As you can see, not speaking up has only made it worse for you... same goes for her oral technique.
Anyway, you're going to have to talk to her, but DON'T tell her she's doing it 'wrong', it's just not how
you like it. What you should do is tell her how you DO like it.