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Old 09-16-2006, 12:45 AM   #1
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No Romance!!!

My story....My Hubby and I have 3 children (age 5 and under). Well I am a stay at home mom, take great care of the house, kids, meals. Not too mention I have ocd. (Obessive Compulsive Disorder) So the home and kids are more than acceptable. Well I try so hard with my appearence, obviously I am very critical...Lotion, perfume, makeup, body..and my Hubby never does anything romantic. I remind him often of the candles I placed around our master bedroom (Decor) that should be lit. But he never does. He never notices when I come out of a hot shower, lavished with victoria secret lotion and perfume. I always make sure the kiddos are in bed on time on the weekends so we can have some alone time together. But what usually happens is he sits in front of the tv. And I head to bed. Should I just light the candles?

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Old 09-16-2006, 06:17 AM   #2
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Re: No Romance!!!

His testosterone may be low and/or his estrogen E2, estradiol, may be high.

If he has put on some body fat or some boob growth then he should get his hormones, Testosterone & estradiol tested. Both can be corrected.

I had both problems.

 
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Re: No Romance!!!

Listen. A lot of times its just life. Men get into ruts just like woman. The absolute key is communication. Have you asked him if there are any things going on that may be bothering him? He may have issues with work that he hasnt shared or any number of other problems. Its great you take care of yourself and I do believe thats important but in the end your looks are NOT what will keep the sizzle in your relationship. Shared dreams and desires as well as a shared sense of humor and mutual respect are the ties that bind. Talk to your husband. I mean REALLY TALK to him. If he shrugs it off make sure he understands that this is something that will affect your relationship if its not dealt with. He cant read your mind nor you his. Talk to each other and good luck!

 
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Re: No Romance!!!

You should talk to him.
Maybe something is bothering him?
Tell him how you feel, hopefully he'll get the idea.
Maybe you could organise a weekend away with him?
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