He can't last - Sexual Health - General Message Board

skittles411 · 10-19-2006, 09:24 AM

I have not had sex with a lot of men, but all of my previous parters have been able to last around 30 minutes (give or take) during intercourse. I have been with my current boyfriend twice and both times he was only able to last about 5 minutes (maybe a little longer). He's in his mid 20's. I'm not really sure what the average duration is, but needless to say I have been a little disappointed. And I don't know what to tell him without somehow insulting him. Any suggestions on what to do or say?

jtm · 10-19-2006, 11:16 AM

I would just give him some time. Like anything in life, the more you do something the better you will get at it.

The Mike · 10-20-2006, 12:26 PM

What position? Most men reach orgasm very fast when in certain positions. Like doggie style for example will cause me to do so much faster than missionary. If you really want to take matter into your own hands get him off orally then clean him up and get him ready again. I guarantee this will help him to last longer.

JinL · 10-21-2006, 01:50 AM

Try it with you on top.

mrbojangle · 10-21-2006, 10:51 AM

Most men will last longer with the gal on top since she is able to control speed, thrust and penetration,