thanks for your reply!!
he doesn't give me oral for very long..he first touches me everywhere to make me feel relaxed... & i'm not mute during foreplay i do show i am enjoying it etc... & before he does this to me ...i give him oral first... & then he does me...
could it be performance axiety?? i read up something about it... that it could not get up or keep it up... if his focused only on the goal of orgasm???
sorry...i'm just quite new to this... any tips would be much appreciated!!