I've realized that I get very excited when a guy lays his head on my chest and listens to my heartbeat. In the past I've gotten myself off as he listened (not because he asked me to, but because I couldn't help myself).
With my current boyfriend, I'm afraid to tell him about this turn-on because I'm afraid he'll think I'm strange. On the other hand, this is something I would LOVE for him to do and every time we're together sexually I imagine that that's what he's doing, and I come very quickly.
I guess my questions are 1) am I the only one with this turn-on? and 2) How can I get this secret "out of the closet" so to speak?
You know i don't think it's such an odd turn on that it can't just happen naturally. For instance if you're just cuddling or something and puts his head on your chest then there you go it can lead there very quickly. I don't know if i'd even tell him it's a turn on yet, i'd just go ahead and make it happen LOL!
I think any guy would be happy to put his head on your chest... honestly! Haha! I don't think it's a strange thing.. I have heard a lot of crazy turn-ons and this one does not sound weird at all to me!
Thanks for your responses. I think the reason it seems strange to me is how extreme my reaction to it is.
For example, most people like to get a back massage. Pretty normal, not strange at all. Now say someone gets so excited from getting a back massage that they get themselves off as they're getting a massage. To most people that would seem a little strange.