Where to begin.. (thank god for anonimity)
The first issue.
So, I had sex with a girl I really like two nights in a row. The sex was 'eh', but I will get into that later. What concerned me more, was that the second time we had sex, I noticed an odd odor lingering around the room. It was a fishy, musty kind of odor. I went online and looked up the symptoms and came across a couple of threads talking about VB
(bacterial vaginosis). The descriptions listed seemed to match exactly what I smelt, but I can't speak on her behalf since I didnt bring it up (was to embarassed to say anything). So the questions I have regarding this are -
1). Is it possible it could be something else? Why didnt it smell on the first night, but on the second night, it was impossible not to notice.
2). Could I have given it to her? Or was this something she had. Since her, I didnt have sex for 8 years and the 1 time i did have sex before her (8 years ago), I wore a condom. Also, my private area never stunk. It's always been refreshling sweet smelling, except after a long period of exercising and you get that cheesy smell between your balls and legs... I'm not really sure why I added that, but I felt it was valid to my point.
3). Is this something I should be worried about? I didnt wear a condom.
4). If it does turn out that this is what we/she has, how do I go about fixing this issue so that it wont be harmful to either of us in the future.
5). How do I tell her? I can't imagine this going over well. I'd like to approach this with a game plan and I'm having trouble producing one.
The second issue.
After sex with her, we both got stomach aches. My stomach felt really strange, like I was on the virge of puking but couldnt. It went away the next day, but I found it strange that we both had stomach problems. I tried looking for information on this and came across issues about me poking her curvix, which could have been the issue. The thing I couldnt find, was why I had stomach issues.
So, my questions for this topic are -
1). Could it be something more serious?
2). Do I need to get this checked out? or is this a typical problem among sexual partners that havent had sex for a while.
From what I know about her, she hadent had sex for 2 years and me 8. =\
The third issue (I really am hating sex right now).
For the few times that I have had sex ( A grand total of 3 ), I have had trouble rising to the occasion. It isnt a physical attraction problem, the women I have been with are very sexy and are girls I'd normally masterbate to. (btw, I have no trouble masterbating) I get really hard during the foreplay, but as soon as it comes to the penetration, my brave soldier looses his nerve. I really want to have sex! ***! I can't for the life of me imagine why I drop off right during the fun part.
So the question I have for this part is -