anal sex... - Sexual Health - General Message Board

victor21 · 02-09-2008, 12:20 PM

Recently my girlfriend and I have been trying anal sex. It usually happens during intercourse, when my penis has been in her vagina and is lubed up. I try sliding it in, but every time she says it hurts so we have to stop. So far I have only been able to get the head in, and that was only for a few seconds before she made me take it out. Is there anything we can try doing to make this easier for her??

jessicaj123 · 02-09-2008, 01:50 PM

I would probably try buying some lube. You dont want to risk tearing anything because it can get infected very easily.

tUrRrRa · 02-09-2008, 11:25 PM

I also agree that lube is very important! Even if her vagina is well lubricated, you may want some extra lube for anal. It's such a sensitive area and can be painful! Just take your time and don't worry if this happens for a little while... eventually you should be able to get more than just the head in, but just try to be patient while she gets used to it. Maybe just a little more in each time will work.

babydiva · 02-10-2008, 01:51 PM

Is she a virgin? Thats none of my business, but that could be why she's in so much pain. Try going slow.

babydiva · 02-10-2008, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by victor21

Recently my girlfriend and I have been trying anal sex. It usually happens during intercourse, when my penis has been in her vagina and is lubed up. I try sliding it in, but every time she says it hurts so we have to stop. So far I have only been able to get the head in, and that was only for a few seconds before she made me take it out. Is there anything we can try doing to make this easier for her??

Oh wait sorry. Did you say anal hurts or just regular sex? If it's anal then my mistake. Um, well anal hurts me too. I tried it before and didn't like it. I kept screaming it's just not for me. Maybe it's not for her either. For some people it works for them and others not.