My wife and I have been in an open marriage for more than five years. Last year she alluded to me once by mentioning the word "threesome" in our conversation about a story that was really a love triangle. I had been thinking about having a threesome but was not sure so I did not take the lead to discuss having her lover come over to try ourselves. Now our son went to college and most time is just two of us at home. I am thinking to have her lover come to our house. We never had threesome before. I am thinking the arrangement will be starting with a role play in which her lover tries to seduce her, and then they'll have sex. I'll mostly be aside to help, like undress her or hold her body for difficult sex positions. Does this sound a workable plan?
Sound workable to me....if you and your wife enjoy talking about having sex with other people as part of foreplay etc. it may be a good time to talk about some different senarios.
Why envision such a passive role?
Is it because you are not really into it, and just doing it to please her?
If not, it might be more fun for both of you if you took a more active role.
Otherwise, why bother? You are reasonably happy being with just her, and she is reasonably happy being with each of you individually.
Maybe I will take a more active role. She is just so sexy that I really want to watch her having sex with someone. I think I'll first watch her lover her first, and then I'll enter her.
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Sound workable to me....if you and your wife enjoy talking about having sex with other people as part of foreplay etc. it may be a good time to talk about some different senarios.
Enjoy
I am looking for some other senarios too. Have not found better ones yets though.
I am looking for some other senarios too. Have not found better ones yets though.
Well you know your wife and the situation better than anyone, so its your call. Either this is the first time so once this ice-breaker is over you might have other chances to join in and/or think of other ways to enjoy yourself.
