You are far from being the only male virgin in his 30's. There are many men that have had sex before, but they are not having sex now. Some haven't had sex in years! What about those men? some are devorced, widowed, and lack yourself, single. I didn't have sex until I was married at 27 years of age. I once wondered like yourself was I the only one?
Little did I know that you were out there thinking you too was the only one.lol.. He, when the right women comes along, you to will have sex.