Re: Sexual Activities in your late 50's
I'm not in your situation, but thought i'd comment anyway. I thought it might depend on the type of health problem your partner is having, whether it stops her from doing all things sexual or only certain things, whether her health has good spells and bad spells.
Depending on how serious your partner's health is or how ill she feels, instead of masterbating on your own, would she be agreeable to you masterbating with her there, with the knowledge that she wouldn't be expected to do actual sexual intercourse and that it would be about "you", not her. Once again, depending on how ill she is, she might still be agreeable to a little oral or to use her hands instead as a method of foreplay to your masterbation..... if that makes sense! This way, she doesnt have to exert herself physically as she would during actual sex and the two of you are still sharing some form of intimacy and sexuality.