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Old 01-10-2009, 08:55 AM   #1
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Question Best lube for anal sex??

I have recently re-discovered the joys of anal penetration...it has been over 13 or more years.

Beings it has been so long I am unsure of what type of lube to use. Thus far we have used the wetness left on him from vaginal penetration or lotion...as you can imagine neither are the best.

I am about 2 1/2 hours from the nearest adult store...so that is not an option. Is there something I can get at the regular drug store or pharmacy to help with this situation? He is suggesting mineral oil...but isn't that a laxative? Boy I sure would be embarrassed if that happened during...haha!!

Any help from those with experience would be very much appreciated

Thank you in advance!!

 
Old 01-10-2009, 09:31 AM   #2
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

KY is probably the best from just a regular drugstore or grocery store. Keep in mind, tho, that it's water based and will absorb during your activity. Needs to be reapplied and often

If you can mail order, our personal favorite is a product called "Jo." That's it. It's AMAZING. One or two drops will last you all night. Heck, it's even still up to the challenge the following morning if you are, LOL!

You can buy a huge bottle of it, but it's not cheap. I think we paid around 30 or 40 bucks for 12 oz. But it blows the water-based stuff away.

 
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Old 01-10-2009, 10:54 AM   #3
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

Thank you for the reply...I am going to check on the "Jo" you mentioned...see if I can get it mail order

 
Old 01-13-2009, 05:59 AM   #4
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

KY Jelly would be the best kind of lube for anal sex because it is thick and therefore provides more protection for the delicate tissues of the anus. It is also the cheapest.

 
Old 01-13-2009, 04:34 PM   #5
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

What about cooking oil?

 
Old 01-14-2009, 06:19 AM   #6
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

Hahaha...cooking oil...that is funny!! We are trying to enhance our love making not make dinner!!

We found a product that seems to work..Astroglide, but am also considering the KY brand of lubricant...nothing wrong with trying out different things. I really want to get the "Jo" brand but shipping charges are outrageous...as soon as I can get to a larger town I plan to purchase some.

Thanks everyone for the suggestions.

 
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

Oooh, I'd forgotten about Astroglide! Yes, that stuff works pretty good. And KY does work fine, but I find that anything water-based absorbs and you have to keep reapplying it ... like a lot and very often! Can be a mood killer

 
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

Thanks bigtom...but I have to say I am the lucky one to have found such a wonderful, caring guy!! I had forgotten what fun other intimate acts brought to the table...it is wonderful to feel alive again...and not just from anal penetration.

Thanks also for letting me know that astroglide worked well for you...so far that is what we are going to stick with until we can get to an adult store.

 
Old 01-29-2009, 10:04 PM   #9
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

What do women or men get out of Anal sex? I mean there's so much emphasis on it in this day and age but I can't see how for a lady having a penis thrusted in your A/H gives pleasure. I know guys who say once you get a woman into it she will like it but I can't see how.

I've seen in porn women giving it to men but having my g/f come at me with a prosthetic phallus or other shaped probe strap on would give me nightmares!

I know guys can have their prostate stimulated by hand or a sex toy which is fair enough. Some men in other countries even have this service as a form of stress therapy in a massage parlour environment where women perform this on them and I can see the logic here.

 
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

Glenzo, I suppose it is a to each their own type of thing...where some (men & women) enjoy this type of penetration. Most straight men would have the same thought as you "having my g/f come at me with a prosthetic phallus or other shaped probe strap on would give me nightmares!"...there is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling this way.

Yes, it gives my bf pleasure, but it also gives me pleasure. There is a completely different (stronger, if you will) orgasm associated with anal penetration. Well for me anyway.

Thanks for your opinion...it really does matter to me. Although I didn't say much...Hopefully I have cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about this matter...

 
Old 01-30-2009, 09:34 AM   #11
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

my wife and I have been using astroglide and we like it. although you may not find it in any local grocery type stores... ky may be your best bet if you're that far from adult stores...

 
Old 01-30-2009, 11:32 AM   #12
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

Nick76 we did find Astroglide...not sure where..he bought it when he was out & about...seems to do the job...still would like to try the "jo system" that another poster had mentioned. Have you used that? I would like as many opinions before I spend so much money buying something (when I do get to an adult store).

Thanks

 
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Re: Best lube for anal sex??

I haven't heard of it... but after googling it I think I want to try it.

 
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