Re: What is masterbation?
The question "What is masturbation?" doesn't seem to fit your post. If she was "playing" with your penis, she was probably masturbating you. If she wanted to put your penis in her mouth, she wanted to engage in oral sex. It was wise of you to suggest that you put on a condom before she sucked your penis. You probably do not know her sexual history, so using protection for oral sex is a very good idea.
What was her reaction to your suggestion of a condom? Did you eventually have sex with her?
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