I am a married women of 12 years. My husband and I enjoy anal sex and have for many years. I know already how to stay safe and make sure no infections or anything in that matter. What I would like to know is any suggestions on what is the best product to use to get yourself ready for all the stretching thats is envolved with anal sex. After all the pain and stretching it is quite enjoyable it is just leading up to that part. I am not looking for numbing stuff. I have tried them all. I am looking for something that will make the skin a little softer and not as hard to stretch. I would appriciate only comments that pertain to my questions please. I dont want to know how dangerous anal sex is for me or what it could do to me. After 12 years I ha ve heard it all and amazingly none of them have eve happen to me due to being very safe and clean. Please, like I said any product that someone has used and it has worked for u to mention it I would truely appriciate it.
I am sure many other people have had this same question but I did not see anything about it on te boards.
What type of anal foreplay do you and your husband partake in? Does he massage you or do you guys just go right for it. My wife has the same problem. At this point, I tend to spend a considerable amount of time trying to relax her i.e. clitoral orgasm, massaging her back and eventually her anus, etc. We've also found when she uses a small vibrator on her **** while we're having anal sex tends to help her some.
What I would like to know is any suggestions on what is the best product to use to get yourself ready for all the stretching thats is envolved with anal sex. After all the pain and stretching it is quite enjoyable it is just leading up to that part.
There should be no pain and stretching involved with anal sex. I'm surprised that after 12 years of it, you still haven't learned how to relax. Obviously you're forcing your sphincter open, as opposed to relaxing it - which is what you should be doing. There is no product that will help with that.