I am an 18 year old virgin who has done very little with guys, other than make out. Every time I do that, or a guy touches me in the right way, I start to produce TONS of liquid "down there". I know that that is supposed to happen, but not this much! It is really embarrassing and causes me to not go any farther with guy even when I really want to. Is there anything I can do about this?
no! don't do that! wearing a tampon to control a totally natural body function is stupid and dangerous. You could risk getting Toxic Shock Syndrom (really serious, you could die). And I don't know how far you are going with guys, but if they happen to see or feel the tampon, most likely it will really freak them out (the whole period thing has really thrown them for a loop). So don't worry, all girls have your "problem", and it just lets guys know that we like them
please don't wear a tampon! not only is it dangerous, when you aren't flowing, it hurts like hell! there are these great little things carefree makes, though- it's a pantiliner, but all wrapped up like a little tiny pad. they come in scented and unscented, and they are a godsend!!! kotex makes them too, and i buy mine at walmart, so they should be easy to find. one other little help can be some powder (cornstarch or regular talcum is great, and it only takes a little). it feels nice too, because then you stay dry! have fun! (don't do anything i wouldn't! <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wink.gif">) ryuko
The posters are right (other than JDl) Do not ever wear a tampon when you are not on your period it is VERY dangerous. Pantyliners are very thin, comfortable and should do the trick for keeping your pants and panties dry.
Also remember that is what your body is supposed to do, our country was founded by a bunch of puritans- so we are made to feel guilty or embarassed by perfectly natural- normal things.... don't by into it. In my experience the last poster is totally right, men are very aroused and enjoy knowing that they are "on the right track" as it were. it is always gratifying to see that you have as much of an effect on your partner as they are having on you!
Yes they are right. I am a man and it would be a turn on.
Those are natural juices you be producing there, designed to help lubricate those parts. Too little lubrication causes friction which is not what you want. You have found men who know how to get you going.
Be proud and have a lot of fun, you are a normal healthy human woman <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif">
I am appauled by JDL's advise. Are there no moderators here who can make judgement and remove potentially dangerous posts?
That person that said "wear a tampon" is a complete dope! I think that maybe he/she was trying to be funny, but ended up lookig like a moron. I had a night with a girl about 15 years ago...without going into too much detail, she was very, very wet. I have to tell you that from my perspective and it appears from others here...it was a wonderful turn on! Enjoy it, but make sure you practice safe sex. Take care Mark
Let me say if your wet you can be sure the guys even wetter than you. I'm 46 and I get wet at the thought of having sex with my wife, infact I have do have the wet patch afterwards. Your fine but don't forget to keep safe as you don't know how many partners he may have had. You seem a good sensible girl I have a younger daughter who I will explain to her in time. Take care
Listen to the women who know from experience that all you need are the panty liners. It is only normal for your body to respond in this way. You heard the men, they like it. When you do become sexually active you will be very thankful that you have all this natural wetness!
Hi Beth...that "tons of liquid" down there is a good thing!!! It just means you're enjoying what is happening...you would much rather be that way than dry/not lubricated...Just as the other guys said...it's a turn-on, not a turn-off....I'm sure you're guy loves to see he is having this affect on you....take care!
All I can say is the first time I ever made out with a guy I was dripping wet too. Now years later....even when I am about to have sex I am still dripping wet. So its normal girl....just hang in there...when u are that wet...sex is the best.