boyfriend with ed?
I'm 24 and have been in a relationship with a guy of 28 for the last year. It's one of these deeply emotional, madly in love with each other kind of relationships but despite being together a year we have yet to have sex. He's a virgin, so I don't like to pressure him.
After about 3 months together and steady increase in sexual intimacy he said he was ready to have sex, but as soon as he got a condom on he lost his erection. At the time he refused to talk about it, and our sexual nature of our relationship went backwards and has been stuck as such since then.
Recently we have started to be sexually intimate again, but once again as soon as we tried to have sex he lost his erection. He was a bit more open about it this time, and admitted it was his worst nightmare. He doesn't have problems getting an erection during oral sex of mutual masturbation, though he never orgasms. I also know he masturbates daily when we're not together. Because of this I'm assuming it's a psychological issue rather than physical, but I'm not sure how to help him past this.
Any help ideas would be greatly appreciated.