Am I too quiet??? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

ana_24 · 08-29-2002, 06:14 AM

During sex, I often wonder if I'm too quiet. I obviously enjoy it immensely and get quite loud when I'm close to having an orgasm, but prior to that, I'm usually pretty quiet. I do the heavy breathing and all that but most of the time I don't really moan too much or talk. Is this a turn off for guys? How loud do you ladies get during sex? I mean, I don't want to be loud just for the sake of being loud and sounding fake... I'm usually genuine so what you see is what you get. I'd love to hear from both sides, men & women..

cornfusedgirlie · 08-29-2002, 08:13 AM

Hey Ana, I would say it depends on what mood i'm in. Sometimes I like to be loud and talk dirty, then sometimes the soft moans and heavy breathing is all he gets. I'd say either way, that as long as you are being genuine then that is far better than being fake.

F-Man · 08-29-2002, 11:15 AM

Wouldn't bother me. Communication can be helpful WRT sex in that you can tell your partner what he's doing that you really like and what you don't like. You can do that by just telling him or by your vocal reactions i.e. moans or groans! If being loud isn't you, then don't be loud. Just be honest. Tell him you're not a "moaner" but that doesn't mean you're not enjoying yourself, and you wanted to make sure knew that.

Michael _aka_Sparky · 09-03-2002, 05:05 PM

Hi Ana, I had a lover that was very quiet, even through orgasm. However, I could tell she was having them through her expressions & body spasms. I could physically feel her muscle contracting. Hope this helps.

Sparky