the urge - Sexual Health - General Message Board

fluffz · 10-04-2002, 01:56 AM

This is all strange for me. I am a professional 27 y/o female. I see this man at the cafe near my office. Bottom line: we flirt and I want to have a thing with him. I only know his given name and that's all I need to know. It's very primal. I think about it all the time. I've reached the point where either I act on the feelings or get over them somehow. I know that a wild mid-day shag is not an option. My question is...

What should I do to get this guy off my mind?
What have you done to deal with a similar situation?

I feel like a git asking, it just drives me crazy.

christie s · 10-04-2002, 08:30 PM

If neither of you are married why not give him your number and ask him to call if he would like to go out sometime. You could simply say, we should have lunch sometime.

I guess what I am trying to say is that if you like him and want to get to know him better then say something to him to let him know you are interested.

If all you are wanting is sex, then send some body signals his way, make the flirting more sexy. If you want to forget him then quit going to the coffee shop.