PLEASE!!!! I need help.... - Sexual Health - General Message Board

MamaCass · 09-30-2002, 01:22 PM

Hello All,
I need help. I have read the books and tried everything they have said but, I just cant seem to have an orgasm during sex. Is something wrong with me? Please help bye.

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MamaCass

MamaCass · 09-30-2002, 01:33 PM

Hello,
Im 20 and Ive tried to relax and everthing in the books. Positions, frame of mind...and nothing seems to work thanks for the reply.

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MamaCass

Blastoff9600 · 09-30-2002, 03:52 PM

I was 21 before I orgasmed during sex,no problems during oral or masturabtion. It was with my fourth partner at that and we had been sexually active for a year and half before it happened for me. Hubby and I had been trying for that entire time. I was to the point I just said screw it and enjoyed the orgasms I could get other ways. And then one night out of the blue it happened. Shocked us both because hubby couldnt figure out why I was crying. Come to find out that when I have orgasm with intercourse,vaginal or g-spot that I cry.
You need to realize not all women are able to orgasm during intercourse and there maybe a chance you are one of those.
So relax and enjoy being with your partner. Enjoy orgasm from other forms. Give your body some more time to mature and see what happens.

MamaCass · 10-01-2002, 10:23 AM

Hello,
Im trying to acheive orgasm through intercourse. I can have one from clitoral stimulation, not intercourse.

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MamaCass

Blastoff9600 · 10-01-2002, 12:23 PM

How about just giving up on it for a while(and when I say a while I mean more than a month). Relax and just enjoy what you can achieve. I know that sounds harsh and I am not meaning it to but it is your best bet right now. Like it has been said by myself and on other replies to you several posts on this there are women who never have orgasms from intercourse. It happens and you just might be one of them. And like I said I was 21 before it happened for me. I had read many,many books and tried every trick I could find. It was when I had given up and was just enjoying being with my hubby that it happened.