Any pointers on lasting longer? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

PeterDenmark · 09-24-2002, 05:05 AM

Hi All

I'm a 22 year old guy who would like some pointers on becomming able to last longer when having sex.

I have a girlfriend and I'm able to make her come most of the times we have sex, but it just seems like such a 'job' sometimes. - Like, I have to concentrate too much on getting her to come, instead of just enjoying the whole thing fully.
I'd also like to be able to move faster and more aggressive in and out for a more prolonged period of time. As it is now, I have to stop and go back to a more slow procedure after a short while.

Any pointers would be appreciated.

I would also like to know if you can go for longer and longer time as you get older?

letsrace28 · 09-24-2002, 07:54 AM

Yes I think (or I know I can anyway) that you last longer when you get older. I am 34 and I can last longer especially the second or third time of the nite. I do have to slow down sometimes but my fiance seems to love that because when I slow down I can spend time touching her and kissing her. Believe me I NEVER think of making love to her as a 'job'. I truly love to concentrate fully on her and making her feel good. In doing that it makes me feel good and eventually I will not be able to last any longer. If you can try and really focus on her and when you have to slow down really concentrate on her and her body....paying special attention to the areas that makes her go wild.

PeterDenmark · 09-28-2002, 10:49 AM

Thanks for the reply Letsrace

I also really enjoy making my girlfriend feel good, but when I can see that what I do to her makes her feel really good it makes it even harder for me to hold back

Phaycops · 09-28-2002, 03:09 PM

Hey Peter,
Here's a couple suggestions:

--Make sure your parnter comes first, from oral or manual stimulation. Then you won't feel as pressured while having intercourse.

--Practice "holding off" your orgasm while masturbating, picturing Margaret Thatcher in a thong or whatever

--Get a cock ring at your local sex shop. It fits over the penis and testicles, constricting blood flow out of the genitals. You get hard, and stay hard even after you've come. But make sure you don't get too carried away!

Good luck!

MamaCass · 09-30-2002, 09:27 PM

Hello,
Another thing you could try is masterbating before sex. Maybe while shes in the bath/shower, or you two can do it together. There are quite a bit of woman who like to watch their bf masterbate. Make it fun! But most of all try to relax dont concetrate too hard our shes bound to find out somethings wrong. Good luck and good bye.

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MamaCass