Another Question re Anal Sex - Sexual Health - General Message Board

alice255 · 10-18-2002, 07:42 PM

Under the last topic on anal sex someone said that everyone thinks anal sex is messy but it isn't. Is that true for everyone? If it does get messy, isn't that a turn off? (I would be mortified!) Are enemas the answer?

kimmy7 · 10-19-2002, 10:10 AM

I think anal sex is disgusting, dangerous & wrong! The anus is meant for one thing & one thing only...any other purpose I believe is sick.

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Kim

mlgable · 10-19-2002, 10:48 AM

Anal sex is not messy unless you let it be messy. It can be a great source of sexual pleasure for many. If you are worried about it being messy then by all means use the bathroom before engaging in anal sex. So long as it is done properly anal sex is fine. It is definately not for everyone but if you think you might be interested then give it a try but do take your time.

Ottawa_guy · 10-19-2002, 01:55 PM

Believe it or not some women can have incredible orgasms with anal sex.

I've never experienced a messy anal sex but I guess it could happen. If you are concerned then you can have an enema a part of your fore play.

lawtalkinguy · 10-22-2002, 08:38 PM

yeah once there was a small incident, which occurred when me and the girl were very inexperienced. It wasn't too pleasant, but wasn't that bad.

Anal sex is a good excuse for her to have a good diet with plenty of fibre, keep the bowel health and clean. I mean if she had a stomach upset or whatever, then you wouldn't be going there.

I say that the penis and vagina are used for urinating, yet most people enjoy oral sex.... they weren't designed for oral sex if you take the biological determinism argument, so oral sex should be disgusting by that rational too.

keep an open mind and enjoy life, the rare ickyness is well compensated for by the amazing pleasure of it for him and her.

As for the 'isnt it a gay thing' - i feel that to not have both orifices available is to deny yourself the variety and fun of life....