ex-boyfriend now friend - Sexual Health - General Message Board

penny07 · 09-23-2002, 12:17 PM

hello everyone ok here goes my ex-boyfriend which we have know each other for 18yrs we dating for 7yrs we never got married. im married now to someone else we have remained friends he got married 2yrs ago now hes going though a divorce.me and his wife were friends too but not like me and him were she really did him dirty. We talk on the phone about everything more then we ever did when we were together and yes my husband is fine with it they are friends too.anyways somtimes i want to ask him how he felt about me he never ever told me not that it matters now i guess i just want closer we never married but yet he married this other woman so how did he really feel about me so should i ask him or just die wondering http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/dizzy.gif
ps even though this is not a sex question plese respond seems like no one will respond to non-sex questions

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star508 · 09-23-2002, 03:36 PM

It seems like you guys are close friends, so I would just ask. If there was some tension b/w you and him or b/w your husband and him, then it might make things a bit awkward. But since you say you're all friends, then, yea, why not? It's a good question, I'd wanna know!

penny07 · 09-23-2002, 05:06 PM

star thanks for responding doesn't seem like no one else will respond. i guess cause it not a sex question lol yea we are very close friends we have alot of memories together and i think when the time is right i will ask him he's very special to me and i just hope im special to him too thanks again

lascot · 09-23-2002, 11:28 PM

hi, just thought you might be interested in the Relationship Issues board.

they might be more responsive to you.

my opinion... you don't want to have an affair do you? just wondering. if not, i'd focus on how your spouse feels about you. i think you know that divorce sucks. i know that sounds preachy. i apologize.
BWT

penny07 · 09-24-2002, 06:35 AM

lascot no i dont want to have affair http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/bang.gif i love my husband very much http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/bang.gif

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