Hi BWT & I are in discord. I have gained approx. 20lbs. related to a health issue. I have gone from a size 8 to a 12 and I think that this is disgusting. I no longer find my body as attractive as it once was. BWT says that's not the case; claims that I am "still sexy". likely story!
OK all... What are your thoughts on a lover with a few extra pounds? Honest... you will not upset me. At what point is there a change in your partner's allure?
LAS
I find women who are a little over weight more attractive than women who are under weight.
To qualify this I mean that a woman with curves is much sexier than a woman who has no curves.
But I also find smaller breasts more appealing than larger breasts.
But, my current GF ha gained a lot of weight and I do not find her very appealing and yes the sex has suffered because I no longer find her to turn me on.
So see, everything is from an individual point of view.
On a foot note, the woman who was the best lover I ever had and the woman that I found to be the sexiest I ever knew and the one woman I could wish for just one more night with was a little over weight.
I have had 4 children put on wieght lost it put it back on and back and forth. I had my self pretty skinny after my last child. My hubby said he did not like it at all. Talk about how hard it is to put on 15-20lbs on purpose. I don't know how the actors do it. Anyway I am where he says he likes it. Just never got my butt back.(his joke real funny) And well the chest looks like I have had the 4 kids. So I am not happy with my looks to top it off I was put on all these damn meds morning ones make me not want to eat and then about 10 pm comes and all I want to do is eat. If I go to sleep feeling hungry I wake up at midnight eating like a horse. I know illnesses and meds play dirty tricks on your body. Maybe you can ask if there is something else out there you can take. I know changeing diets does not work sometimes. I feel a person has to feel happy with thier bodies. And sexy comes from with in. The way you feel. And if you act it and feel it then you are home free. But you have to be comfortable with you! There are people out there that are way over weight and feel great about them selves. Some had to learn to be that way.
I don't know if my babbling helped but good luck!!!
DE
Hey!
I myself am not the smallest person in the world, and my boyfriend loves it. He tells me I am the most beautiful thing ever. U know what they say " The more cushion the better pushin" Don't worry about it! I am sure you are a beautiful person with a kind heart, and thats all that matters! Good Luck!
i've seen some overweight women that just screamed sexy-and you know why-because they feel sexy-i'm not big and i don't have what some of them have-i always wanted to be one of those really confident women that walk around as if saying-look at me-i'm sexy and i know it
We are curious 
Good Luck!
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