I Can't Orgasm - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Anette0513 · 07-30-2002, 10:07 PM

Hey Every1!
Ok so here is the deal... me and my boyfriend recently started having sex, and for some reason, I can't orgasm... I can orgasm thru masturbation tho!

Any advice would b great! Thanx Every1!! =)

~Anette0513

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 11-09-2002).]

mlgable · 07-31-2002, 08:25 AM

Ok for the millionth time................many women do not, cannot or have not orgasmed with intercourse. This is not unusual. For some women they can eventually orgasm with intercourse if they also have direct clitoril stimulation. Some women simply are unable to orgasm with intercourse at all. You need to relax and just try various things for the fun of it to see if you can find a position that will bring you to orgasm. Since you know what makes you orgasm with masturbation then try some of these techniques while you are having intercourse if you can. But above all remember that many women do not orgasm with intercourse.

scbagrrrl · 08-01-2002, 10:13 AM

Anette,
Some woman may not orgasm during intercourse, but it's certainly fun trying! Try different positions, not only is it more exciting, but you might find a position or two or ten that work for you. You also might find down the road a partner that does work. Sometimes you just get a better sense of confidence in yourself with someone else around - letting yourself totally go...

Lisa1171 · 08-01-2002, 12:19 PM

Hi, I have actually never had any orgasm during the actual intercourse unless either him or I are stimulating my clit. I have tried and tried again, but it has never worked. I will either have one before or after. Try different positions and that like the others have said. Maybe it will work for you. Good luck!

Michael _aka_Sparky · 08-16-2002, 01:20 PM

My Wife & I have tried several things.
Try on your back with your hips raised by 2-3 pillows. It works wonders for my wife. At least that's what she tells me, LOL

Sparky