Be passionate. Strictly MHO here, but there is nothing that's more of a turn-on for a man than to have a woman turned on *by* him. Be confident and honest about having your own desires and be an absolute animal in getting them fulfilled. To me, the biggest thrill was watching my wife come at me with that "lioness that hasn't eaten in a week" look in her eyes.
Just from my experience again but don't be too "sensitive" either. You don't need to ask, "Would you like 'x' or 'y'?" Just try it. I'm assuming your guy is all-grown-up and is capable of telling you that he doesn't like something. And, if he *does* ask you to stop something, don't take it personally. Just move on to the next inspiration and keep going.
So, one guy's suggestions: Aggressive, passionate sexual abandon with just a touch of selfish pleasuring.
<sigh>Crud. Three and a half hours before my wife gets home. I need to read this forum later in the day....
Good luck,
Keith C.
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