Okay, like I have said before myhusband and I have a extream sex life but that is just forplay and such.. The actual intercourse is alwasy missionary and I normally do most of the moving.. It works for us.. But today we had a lil fling and he was VERY different he did like 3 different positions, yes it was enjoyable VERY much so, but I am the only person he has been with and he never does anything different... He also doesn't look at porn or anything like that to my knowledge.. It isnt on the computer nor do we have any videos.. So I was just wondering what yall thought might be up? I did love it but I am also worried.. I didnt expect it.. He did things that I havent even mentioned before.. I have tried to get him to do different things but he was always nervous about it.. And today BAM he had me in all kinds of differnt positons and I dont understand.. Any comments or advise would help a LOT
He could have possibly done some research on different positions etc. Maybe something popped into his head, found out about it through the internet maybe, or possibly he had a conversation where it came up. The possibilities are endless, adn until you communicate with him, it's best not to jump to conclusions. Simply ask him what sparked this, and let him know how you feel about it
I did bring it up and told him how much I loved it.. He said it just came about.. I know it wasnt the internet ( the history would tell me if it was ), and he also doesnt chat much online.. I dont know maybe I am assuming to much.. But he has been going out a lot alone without me.. We are normally together 24/7.. We even work together.. I have been pulling all nighters and working on our days off to catch up with the bills and he would be around and about running around.. I dont know.. maybe I think to much.. okay to put it all out in the open.. Is these signs of cheating? He hardly wants to have sex with me anymore I was VERY suprised when this spontanious thing happened today.. He normally complains of itching or his penis hurting ( I posted about that before ) or says he isnt in the mood and wont let me try to get him in the mood.. I don't think im unattractive or anything and others dont either.. But its just he doesnt show it enough ya know? And im really scared.. I just dont know.. Also, I dont know if this makes a difference but his kisses are different aswell.. I do know there has to be some dishonesty.. I just don't know how bad.. See he has always been scared of doing other positions because he is scared that he will lose his erection, it happened before and ever sence he wont do anything but missonary style. That is why it is freaking me out.. Am I rambling? Anyway.. Thanks for the help... any others would help aswell
I know I'm not the person that has everything...or even near a decent amount going good in my relationship, and my opinion may not be worth much. But I think you may want to give him the benefit of the doubt. Talk to him of course (easier said then done I KNOW). Perhaps he has just been tired lately and that's why he hasn't been as interested? Maybe he decided he wanted to really impress you today with new positions? Talk about it...try not to jump to conclusions as hard as it may be.
Internet history can be cleared. Books can be bought with cash. He could have consulted a trusted friend. Sometimes all men like that need is someone to tell them that it's okay to do things like that. It's very easy to get advice about things like that without you finding out -- maybe he's beengoing to seminars!
Why are you so afraid he's cheating on you? Why do you have such a desire to distrust him? Maybe this has the root in why he's been lacking in sex-drive. Seriously examine why you feel this way -- it deserves a closer look, not because it's likely that your husband is cheating on you, but because it's likely that you're blowing this out of proportion and it helps to know why if you want to keep it from happening again.
[This message has been edited by wrin (edited 03-17-2003).]
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