BF has a huge 1... - Sexual Health - General Message Board

ExoticWoman · 03-27-2003, 07:47 PM

My boyfriend and i have just started having sex a lot. ITs wonderful! But, the prob is he seems to be too long or big for me. WHen we have sex, a lot of times it hurts me, like there's too much pressure. I'm always well beyond wet, so lubrication is not a prob. and i'm not a virgin so tearing my hymen is not a concern. I want to feel good along with him...what should i do?

...PLEASE HELP!

gwle · 03-27-2003, 08:45 PM

Out of curiosity, how big are we talking? Is it just length?
To answer your question, try girl on top. This will allow you to control how much goes in.

tinkers · 03-28-2003, 07:46 AM

You need to be open with him and let him know your concerns. He shouldn't get mad, he should actually be flattered because he is BIG. Let him know that you need to try different positions or take it slower.
Tink

george52806 · 03-28-2003, 09:14 AM

This can be a problem, but I agree maybee you should be on top for better controll but I feel you also need to let him know how you feel, you may want to start out with flattery then go int detail. Good luck and good loving.

DanaJ · 03-28-2003, 03:59 PM

He could have had this problem with other women, so if you don't bring it up, he may not realize there is a problem.