Porn- if you can't beat them, join them?! - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Cheeky · 04-07-2003, 09:57 PM

Hi,

Is there any way to get aquainted with porn? My boyfriend is usually on the net and I hate when he does that. It usually makes me feel unwanted, like something is wrong with me or like I'm not good enough.

We've had many arguments regarding this issue and personally I'm sick of them but I love him with all my heart.

And as the old saying goes 'if you can't beat them join them' which is what I'm intending to do. I suggested it to him to to it as kind of a couple thing.

I want it to be a shared experience and heat things up a bit more but it still feels kinda funny.

Is there any suggestions as to how to get used to it?

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 04-08-2003).]

Cheeky · 04-07-2003, 11:23 PM

what would be a good way to seduce him?

the other thing is that at this stage I feel funny watching porn with him.... but I wanna get over this stupid feeling....

Cheeky · 04-08-2003, 06:05 AM

maybe its the fact that it just I think it turns him on more than what I do......

and boy do I like to make out....

maybe I think I kinda get jealous..... but I don't want to be......

I just want to be into it without a hassle....

sometimes he's comments don't help either... if you know what I mean....... http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/confused.gif

coaned · 04-08-2003, 07:18 AM

What kind of comments? If you're talking about commenting on the girls in the movie like they are hot or something, that is just wrong of him. If that is the case, play his game. Talk about how huge this guy is, and what a nice *** that one has. Maybe he will see how it feels.

My bf would never make me feel threatened by a porn star. He always tells me that these girls have nothing over me, and not to sound cocky or anything, but I think that he's right. Have you seen any of these girls in porn? In my opinion, most of them are really unattractive.

I was in a similar situation not too long ago. What my bf and I did was we would get on the internet and pick out movies to buy together. This worked out really well for me. Most of them are so dumb that I end up giggling half of the time.

crayola110 · 04-08-2003, 11:31 AM

i agree with coaned...thats good advice about giving him a dose of his own medicine. but then again he may not feel jealous. I was with a girl for a while and always commented on other women..it just comes out sometimes...but that did'nt diminish the love and attraction i had towards her!