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Old 04-11-2003, 09:17 AM   #1
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Question Experimenting with another woman

I posted this on the relationship issues board but it got deleted... i'll try again...

It's a fantasy of my boyfriend's to be with two women at once. It's a fantasy of my own to be with a woman. The subject of bringing a woman into bed with us has come up on numerous occassions during our pillow talk and we've discussed it more or less seriously and it turns us both on quite a bit. However, I've heard from sources that such things can completely ruin a relationship. We love each other so very much and are completely committed to our relationship. nobody is pushing anyone else into this- we're equally interested but don't NEED it and certainly don't want to jeopardize our relationship over what would be a little fun. we're not looking for a regular thing or a change of lifestyle... just a one time experiment... for now.

how do you meet someone for that without going to a swingers club... we're both pretty shy, quiet people with strangers.

thanks in advance for your comments! i want to research this before I jump to any conclusions.

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Old 04-11-2003, 12:58 PM   #2
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It's not really the other woman that I'd be worried about. I'm more worried that I'd see him and her together and break down crying or something... probably not, but it makes me nervous to think about... or else that it'll all be done and then I'll feel bad about it afterward. I know, I know- 'You'll never know until you try', but I just wanted to hear about other people's experiences living out fantasies and see if there is a sucess rate comparable to the failure rate.
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The one boyfriend I had that wanted to try the 2 women, 1 man, got jelious. Can you imagine? A girl friend of ours agreed to experiment. She is quite attractive. She has been a friend of mine since we were little. (we're in our 30s) Any way, we all had a couple of glasses of wine to help relax. While my boyfriend was between us taking turns kissing & fondling us, everything was fine. However, when my girl friend and I started kissing & slowly undoing our clothes, he seemed to become distant. (?) My gf & I were starting to have a really good time & kept expecting him to join in. Instead, he said he was getting tired and needed to go home. My gf & I never did go any further. And he is now an EX.
Best bet is to communicate w/ your bf. Make sure that if y'all do go through w/ it, he is not going to suddenly be upset. Or, that he will want her instead of you. I found out it can be tricky.


I hope every thing works out.

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The best way to do this is with 2 complete strangers. It doesnt work with husban and wife situation because one wil always blame the other. I did it with 2 girls i met on the internet and it was quite an experience.

We do it now on a regular basis and it is very awesome.

 
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