Female Orgasm/Ejaculation - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Hezza182 · 04-09-2003, 12:16 AM

I know this is a very common question, so please bare with me!

My new boyfriend and I have started to have sex recently, yay! Haha!
First of all, best sex of my life!
The problem?

Very quickly I can get to the point that I feel like I have to pee BAD! Now I know this is normal and to relax and move past it, it's impossible to urinate in this situation! How on earth do you get past that feeling? I read that I should give a little push as if I were peeing, but I'll ejaculate instead!
Is this true?

How much fluid should I expect? I'm afraid to make a huge mess and be embarassed afterwards! He wouldn't care, he's all about pleasuring me, but I'm just scared! I've never had an orgasm during intercourse before, I have always had to stop because the feeling of having to pee was too much to handle!

So should I give a little push?
Anyone who has been in this situation, PLEASE reply! I feel like I have probably been within 2 seconds of a g-spot orgasm and if that's the case, I wanna just do it next time!

One other question, can a woman have a g-spot orgasm WITHOUT ejaculating any fluid?
Last night my bed was soaked but it didn't leave any stains, it was clear fluid and I assumed it was sweat or something of the sort! Now I'm wondering if it's possible that I did have a small orgasm? I remember that suddenly the feeling of having to pee was gone, but I don't remember any amazing feeling during or after it; Seconds later the feeling of having to pee was back, so I don't know what to think about it!

I am so afraid to ejaculate because it feels soooo much like I'm going to pee, it's so hard to relax in that situation!

Does ANYONE have any suggestions, advice, stories, etc. on this topic?
Thank you SO much!

Secret Addictions · 04-09-2003, 12:40 AM

When i get that "pee" feeling while gettting
"fingered" or thru making love, I never saw it as a bad thing, as most women will describe hier internal vaginal orgasm very much close to the urge to pee....once you accept the fact that it is a normal feeling when your at that brink (vaginal orgasm) you begin to get passed the feeling of "i have to pee" VS "oh yeah, faster!" i think it is normal. What you can do, is go to the bathroom just before you know making love may happen, and therefor you know you already went, so the feeling MUST be a good thing, not that you have to go!

Hmmmm...... now how about that CLITORIAL orgasm... That one is very much like a electric rush flowing thru your body that feels just like a ITCH/SCRACH (you know that feeling when you have a mosquito bite, and you cant stop itching it, because iit feels so good? That in part is kinda what a cliroial orgasm is... twisted bodies us women have aye?

Laura -

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Hezza182 · 04-09-2003, 08:02 AM

Oh I'm very familiar with the clitoral orgasm, maybe I wasn't clear on the last question.
What I was asking was "Is it possible to have a vaginal/g-spot orgasm WITHOUT ejaculating?"
Any idea how much of this oh-so-fun fluid I should expect? Haha!

I thought about going pee beforehand, that way I would know that I can't go regardless of the fact that it's impossible! Haha! Usually I just say stop, it feels like I'm going to pee soo bad and he'll smile and say "That's a good thing!" I think he's very unsure of why I'm scared exactly, but I explain it to him so that he knows yes, he is satisfying me, I'm just scared to go any further!

For any of you who have experienced the ejaculation part, will a towel be sufficient? We always seem to soak the bed somewhere that we don't remember being, haha, but I'd like to try and avoid that!

Thanks again, all comments are welcome!

tinkers · 04-09-2003, 11:07 AM

Female ejaculation is wonderful. These are the best orgasms I can have. But they make me feel like I am really high, but naturally! A towel sufficient? Maybe 2! Yes, sometimes it does feel like you have to pee. I also used to be scared, and then I went with the feeling. Wow! Let yourself go. I spray out a clear fluid with no smell to it. So no it's not yellow like pee. Try it!
Tink

Hezza182 · 04-10-2003, 10:17 AM

Thanks for the input, I shall do my best!
Haha!