Is it Normal ???? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

W.VgirlinIOWA · 04-18-2003, 04:02 PM

Is it normal for my Fiance to think of me giving another guy a BJ ,while I am giving him oral??? I told him I think it is normal and he says he don't know if he can anymore because he feels bad ,that I know about it ,and he says it is wrong of him to think that.I am the one who asked him because I was curious to know his fantasys,And he says some things are better left unknown now,I am not upset at him I am just wondering do alot of guys do this ,is it common???
Christy Rose

W.VgirlinIOWA · 04-18-2003, 07:27 PM

Does anyone know ..I need advice my relationship is falling apart

Gail2 · 04-18-2003, 07:48 PM

Hi there, I think that fantasies are normal as long as they are not all acted upon in reality(depends on the fantasy). Guys have fantasies of being with two women at a time..that doesn't mean that they will act upon it. Maybe your boyfriend just finds it a turn on to imagine you with anoher guy. We all have our fantasies,we have those active imaginations,its only human. Take care.

YouNeverKnow · 04-18-2003, 07:59 PM

It's very normal to imagine all kinds of stuff. So I think he is perfectly normal. Tell him to forget he told you and don't ask him again.

Heather0678 · 04-19-2003, 10:47 PM

Men fantasize about a lot of things, his fantasy seems normal to me. Maybe hes going back on it now though because even though its something that in his mind he thinks would turn him on in reality he doesnt want you to actully act on it. Perhaps its just something he feels he should of kept to his self because he really doesnt want it to happen. Maybe hes feeling a little insecure or something now.