discomfort? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

Anonymid · 04-17-2003, 10:31 AM

Ok slight problem...my (lesbian) gf makes me feel great when she's pleasuring me but i get this feeling like i want to pee which gets more intense, and i feel like i'm on the verge of orgasm but i get scared...it's not just about being scared i'll pee myself, cos i usually try to go to the bathroom first....it's just that feeling i get is almost unbearably pleasant to the extent it's more uncomfortable....i know if it wasn't, i'd let her continue and the feeling would be amazing...cos it's always almost there...i just dont get why i get that discomfort...it's not pain or anything

sprout · 04-17-2003, 11:54 AM

Anonymid,

If you are referring to the sensations you are feeling while her fingers are inserted inside you...what you are feeling is normal. It is likely that she is stimulating your g-spot and the sensation caused by this is very much like you need to urinate. You do not have to worry about urinating during this activity...especially if you are making sure you go to the bathroom prior to it.

Go with the sensations and relax. Chances are, you are on the verge of having an intense vaginal orgasm that could likely result in ejaculation. If you ejaculate, it is a clear fluid and may very well seem as if you are urinating. You aren't though.

There are a few threads on this board that address this very issue. One of the more recent ones is "Female Orgasm/Ejaculation. Take a look at the posts there. I am sure you will find that you can relate.

Take care of you,

sprout

Anonymid · 04-17-2003, 12:04 PM

It's not the peeing bit that worries me greatly...it's that the feelin is uncomfortable enough that i'm not able to actually tolerate it...i HAVE to tell her to stop. I suppose it's more an emotional thing...it's weird tho, cos i like how i feel, yet i can't take it. I'll go look at the other posts, thanks for ur advice

mlgable · 04-18-2003, 08:53 AM

First off do you get this same feeling when you masturbate? If you do then you just need to get past this sensation and let go. If you don't get this same sensation when you masturbate then you may need to talk it over with your partner and tell or show her what causes this sensation so that she can change her technique and then show her what things do help you to orgasm.

Anonymid · 04-18-2003, 04:58 PM

I don't get the sensation when I masturbate...i suppose she hits a couple of different spots if i think about it...one i hit that makes me feel good...she hits that but it feels better when it's her of course....she also manages to hit another which isn't so good...but it seems to be at the same time...maybe it's how much pressure or something...i'll work it out. will prob talk to her about it...i'm up for experimenting till we get it right lol. thanks for all the advice