too small - Sexual Health - General Message Board

joebob3993 · 04-14-2003, 01:10 AM

My girlfriend and I would like to have sex as much as we possibly could but alot of times we cant because she is too small for me and I end up hurting her really bad. This makes both of us very distraut. Is there anything we can do to make this any better or is this a permanent problem?

poreoilyme · 04-14-2003, 01:15 AM

Go slow, use lubricants, and go slow, I repeat. Part of the problem may be her anxiety over this and you need to be patient and work toward it gradually so she can learn you won't hurt her.

villagegal68455 · 04-16-2003, 11:03 PM

hey my hubby is six one and i'm four eight......very painful sex at times.....what we do is use plenty of lube...and when you first enter her, go slow.....tell your girl, that when she feels like she is drying out, then to apply more lube....if she doesn't sex definetely gets painful and you won't be able to enjoy it if she can't.......good luck......btw....i recommend astroglide...that's my personal fave.....

tinkers · 04-17-2003, 06:00 PM

I agree with the other posts. Astroglide is awesome. I don't need it very often anymore, but when I did, it worked wonders.
Tink

joebob3993 · 04-21-2003, 09:20 AM

Thanks for all your tips we will try them. I have one more question though. What does it mean when it makes her feel like she has to pee REALLY bad. Because she always stops and goes when she gets that feeling. And that kinna ruins it a bit. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/confused.gif