From behind...should it feel like this? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

ExoticWoman · 03-28-2003, 07:32 PM

When my boyfriend makes love to me from behind (ie. vagina) it feels really intensely pleasurable, but also some discomfort. I've never done it from behind with any other guy so i'm not sure how it should feel. I also kind of feel like i'm goin to urinate during this. Could someone please tell me if this is normal. I always make him stop once the feeling gets really intense. He says i'm probably about to have an orgasm, but i get scared and i stop. I've never had an orgasm from sex; only on my own, so i don't know how it should feel. Someone please tell me if any of this is normal.

Thisby · 03-28-2003, 10:47 PM

Since you know what an orgasm feels like, you can probably trust your own judgement on whether it feels like you're about to have an orgams or not. As for feeling like you're going to urinate, it's possible that his penis is pressing on your bladder depending on his angle. Or it could be stimulating your g-spot. Some women (myself included) find this an odd feeling.

As for how it "should" feel, I can't really say. I just know that different positions have different feelings, some more comfortable than others. But it's always good.
Since you say it's intesely pleasureable, you might want to take advantage of the position and have him try to stimulate your clitoris (or you can do it yourself) and see if you can't have an orgasm while you're at it. You may discover you don't want to stop after all.

sdp · 03-31-2003, 12:05 PM

My wife has had these feelings too although in different positions and has made me stop too. It always ticks me off, because I have read that others get this sensation right before an incredible orgasm. I say just let loose and go with it. Keep a towel handy just in case. You'll never know until you've tried it. Now I have to convice my wife.

janeylane · 04-01-2003, 01:19 AM

Hi.

Listen, my boyfriend and I love to do it from behind.
And yes, I know that feeling of wanting to pee. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/redface.gif)
Pressure on that area can cause that feeling. It doesn't mean you're really gonna pee, necesarily, but it is distracting.

Just go to the bathroom just before to make sure your bladder is empty.
And the feeling is intense because of the angle.

I highly recommend that position, and I think you should try it till the end. And you can use your hand too, to help yourself along.
This may be a different orgasm than you're used to, because maybe your other orgasms were clitoral and this is more of a vaginal one.

And if you're still to worried about peein, how about trying it in the shower? If you can get in that position in the shower, that is... That way, even if you have a little "accident", no one will notice. But again, I really don't think you will actually pee, especially if you went before. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/redface.gif) Good luck!

Roger100 · 04-01-2003, 01:33 PM

He is probably stimulating your g-spot. This will give you a big orgams. But it often causes a having to pee sensation. You might even squirt a little with the orgasm but it is not urine. Go to the toilet before then you can be sure.
Peace