I don't think you come across very clear. Your saying that your attracted to this female nurse/dr...lots of people look hot to us and we often think what it would be like to be with them, it's a little different when they are also feeling you in spots most "strangers" don't. I don't think this is weird, some woman get wet when they have to see an obgyn, it's just a natural reaction to the body. You didn't say much before you said it was strange...strange that she was a blond and good looking to you? I'm not sure how much techs get paid...why does it matter???
It is up to the woman being treated by the male gyno if she wants someone in there. Most dr's know better, but if a woman is uncomfotable she can even ask for the nurse to come in and stand by if that makes her feel any better. The woman who was looking after you was only doing her job. I'm sure that if she liked her job too much she would treat all patients the same if she was out for pleasure and she probably wouldn't be where she is today.
Please do tell what is soo strange...
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