EddieDean

Some background information: I am a 23-year old female currently in a 3 year relationship. We plan to get married in a few years, at which time we hope to have intercourse and eventually children.

However, I am beginning to worry that I will never be able to enjoy sex because my vagina is so tight and small. I am a small person (5'2 115 lbs) with small bones, but I've known plenty of others my size who have been able to enjoy sex. I experience a HUGE amount of pain going through a pap test, and doctors have told me this is because my outer vaginal muscles are extremely clenched. I'm not sure how to loosen them so that I might be able to endure the procedure.

Trust me, I am trying all kinds of things to prevent this from becoming a major problem, but I simply can't be touched down there without it hurting a LOT. I have never been sexually abused, I am very sexually liberated, and I would genuinely LOVE to be able to be comfortable with that part of my body. Is there some possibly disorder I might have? I have spoken to three gynocologists about this (including one reproductive doctor) and they have all told me I'm just small because I'm a virgin. I highly doubt that all virgins have this kind of pain just going near the hole. Any advice or experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!