Anal - Sexual Health - General Message Board

topspin · 08-17-2003, 05:23 AM

Hi All,

I find reading these posts very interesting. I'm a bit of a nymphomaniac actually - I like to have sex at least 3 times a day and masturbate about the same amount each day.

I just thought I would ask your views on anal sex. I have quite recently really got into it. I first experienced it about 6 months ago. I have been in long term relationships where it just wasn't something I or they wanted, but with my current girlfriend - she loves it too.

Like I said, she loves to put her finger in me and I love to put my finger in her. She lets me put my fella in too from time to time but she is undecided if she likes the feeling. Just recently, I have masturbated in front of her and she sticks her finger in me quite far and it feels absolutely wonderful (although, borderline painful)

also, if anybody know any ways to make the experince for a woman less painful (when I put my penis in her).

Sex is so GREAT!!

Thanks :-)

Topspin

{note the edits in your post...bfl}

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 08-24-2003).]

KaysMom · 08-17-2003, 10:33 AM

Consider your girlfriend a real find. Women who like anal sex are kind of like four leaf clovers, A very rare occurence and real luck if you get one. I, personally, have no use what so ever for anal sex. I get no pleasure from it, its painful, and just all around an unpleasant exprerience. My boyfriend loves it though, so, once in a rare moment I will try for him. He also likes having his prostate gland stimulated. I have no problem using sex toys on him and giving him this added pleasure.I wish I could into anal more for his sake. Anyone know how to make it more comfortable?

butterfly1012 · 08-17-2003, 09:40 PM

Ok here is what you need:Anal Ease it's a lube with benzocaine in it.

Hubby will start with a lot of foreplay and then we use a ***** and a small egg shaped vibrator. This gets my mind off of the "oh god here it comes it's gonna hurt" lol

This has made a world of difference for us. I'm not saying I wanna do it every time but every once in a while is fine.