How often do me really want sex? - Sexual Health - General Message Board

BlueberryM · 08-19-2003, 06:57 AM

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dsheldon3 · 08-19-2003, 07:21 AM

Ya, he's probably tired of you.Thats my biggest fear of getting married.They get tired of you so fast.Heck,I can only see a guy once a week or even once a month and they still get tired of me.Its so hard to move on when they do and just forget about all the good times shared.I too would like to hear from the guys out there.What can us women do so you won't get tired of us?

mlgable · 08-19-2003, 08:52 AM

I am sure he is not tired of you but you do need to talk to him about his decreased desires. If he has always been a once a week type man then that is most likely his normal however if you used to have sex frequently and it has now changed then you need to talk. Is he on any medications that might be decreasing his sex drive? Also does he work long odd hours or do you like sex at night and he prefer daytime sex. You said he wasn't very open about this but when you have a problem he needs to be open. If he can't be open with you about sex then that is something you need to work on...........better communication.

Magnetic · 08-20-2003, 06:24 PM

Sometimes men will find masturbating to porn more exciting that having sex with the same ole woman. Or, if you are, well, *****y, to him, he may be expressing his repressed hostility by viewing porn and pretending to be having sex with those women and turning away from you. It may be nothing like this at all - it is really difficult to say what his problem really is.

You might rent a porn video yourself and have you both watch it together. But you may need to set some rules - no porn without you being there.

dsheldon3 · 08-21-2003, 02:35 AM

Yeah right,I'm really going to get into my man watching some drop dead sexy playboy babe.Thats fine if you have a nice body and can measure up to those women that are on those movies,but what if your body sucks?Your man spends an hour looking at 36,24,36 with pefect **** and plump butt and all and then they take one look at you,flat,saggy chested from breast feeding with no butt and a not so trim and thin waste with strecth marks from giving child birth.Ya, like I'm going to feel real sexy after him watching perfect figure hot babes on porn.